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How To Make Important Decisions In Your Life


How To Make Important Decisions In Your Life 



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The sense of purpose will always bind you and humans want it so that they can live a less chaotic life that is somewhat ordered and falls in line with the societal operation and functions.

We were wanderers and still are. But that intrinsic quintessences has been subdued with multiple layers of arrangement, responsibility, society, peer pressure and unknown reasons.

We aren't exactly able to define what it is that holds us, but it has enormous power. There is an alternative, maybe, it is weak and we are too afraid.


Most of us choose a life that gives us a need to survive in the world. Our part which made us nomad is lost, perhaps.

And, it has more to do with us than the environment. Because we have established our environment, and now a new entity is unable to reason outside the environment, like a frog in the well.

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Our memory always finds gratification, when it finds an easy target to blame.

A target that is comprehensible, visible and too powerful for an individual.

Then, the task becomes super easy. We continue to run until someone asks why are you actually running.

It is then we have the plethora of subterfuges to shut the mouth of the questioning entity, who, if not already into our tribe, is forced to rethink his approach towards life and his meaningless existence.
Many would say, get help. But, what they really mean is go to an agent that will make you think and act like everyone else so that you will have no problems dealing with the inconsistencies, and absurdness of the human species, and the environment they have created.

This is what is left of you.

These agents are available in all shapes and sizes and are present wherever you need them.

Decisions In Your Life 



Well, then, you are free to choose your tribe.

Why do you care who has stopped you?

Now, they will test your patience and persistence to demean you so that you accept defeat even before the battle is open. You find yourself alone in your tribe, and if you somehow manage to succeed then you are asked, what have you done for your community.

These are all facets of life, they say, which will pass, and you will look back and smile on the foolishness of your thought process. 

And, if you manage to become best in the breed according to the society, you are doomed a little later when you descend into obscurity, where no one is there to ridicule or console you on a life worth living.

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