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The loss of reality in daily life


Finding a connection or an object or a feeling to hold on to, we become attached with. Many can define these phenomena in many different ways. One of the most popular theory goes like this; find a job you love. This may seem to be simple advice but it is the biggest lie because there is no such thing as a job which you can decide to do for the rest of your life. Living a life detached from the surroundings or fellow members of society can be a blessing in disguise or rather a difficult choice for many others. It all boils down to what exactly do you want and this is the path of the rabbit hole. Everything you value or like begins to appear in your mind and the incoherent curve of images and thoughts start racing through your brain that is too difficult to die. So, you let the rope loose. The ship begins to take its own course without a particular direction. And, then you see someone sailing with purpose and realize their direction and ambition.

The Goal and The Loss

There is no clear path ahead for anyone in the life. We choose our own path and march ahead in life. So, this is very simple and traditional approach to life but there is where the fact lies. No matter what you choose to do with your life, you are bound to have regrets and losses. So, better to have regrets that you can forget rather than those which cannot be easily forgotten. It all sounds to me like I am writing this for anyone else but this all belongs to my consciousness which is currently attached to the reality of my life and future.

The Escape and The End

Always finding a reason to escape the reality of life is the character of a true gentleman. How can that be true? Well, that is true only if your escape route matches your passion and practicality of life. It can be clearly explained by the Venn diagram. The clear intersection area of your escape plan and the reality of life. Another factor that plays a key role in the process is the degree of acceptance of your escape route in the society. If the route is mostly used by most of us then you fall in the majority and you will be a celebrated guest in the community. But, if the escape plan falls in the wilderness of the unknown or unimaginable land, then you have to be prepared for the battle ahead. It only means that you have discovered a new escape plan for the human race from the reality. And, it may take years and many sacrifices before your branch of escape plan comes into the mainstream market and becomes a commodity for the consumers. And, the end will arrive sooner than expected. People will forget and find another escape plan. So, the reality we define is actually someone's escape plan. It may be called pseudo-reality for many species.

The Beginning and The  Imagination

I live in my brain. Thinking all the time about the all the things observed or experienced and giving them the alternate perspective to test the dimensions of my imaginative capabilities can be regarded as my favorite pastime of the day. Spinning the experiences, playing with the characters of the movies or web series and giving them new goals to achieve can be counted as my creative thinking capabilities if one were to include these activities in the realm of a broader creativity, which is beyond borders and dimensions. Thinking is an act which human beings indulge when there is no need for. And, they do not think when it is required the most in many important situations of life and business. Do you really do all the things after thinking all the possibilities? No, that is never true. So, the act of thinking is never whole or complete, and it can never be.

The Path and The Fear

Everyone fears the power of imagination because that is where they get most painful experiences in life. The reality is quite acceptable in real life and can be dealt with a little courage.



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